Playtime with Dominatrix Sophia Chase

For additional info about Sophia, visit: www.ladysophia.com

Why couples see a dominatrix

Seeing a dominatrix is a thrilling experience. Couples tend to visit to spice things up, fulfil a fantasy, enjoy a new experience together, or learn more about BDSM. There are also benefits to seeing a dominatrix. Positive BDSM experiences can improve trust and intimacy, and the communication and boundary setting necessary to engage in BDSM play can improve communication outside of engaging in kink.

What is a session?

A session is time with a dominatrix. It occurs in three parts: 

  1. Pre-scene negotiation: an informational interview the dominatrix conducts with the couple to establish interests, limits, and safewords
  2. The scene: playtime
  3. Aftercare: post-scene time for care and decompression

Types of sessions

Individuals seeing Sophia will assume the role of the submissive. If a couple is seeing Sophia, there are a few different dynamics possible:

  • She can co-top with a fellow dominant, either switching off who is actively engaging with the submissive or teaming up to double the action the submissive is receiving.
  • She can dominate one of you while the other watches as a voyeur, perfect for learning through observation or simply enjoying watching your submissive partner being played with.
  • She can join you as a service top, either being on hand to whisper in the ear of the dominant partner to help them run the show, or use her expertise to set up a scene you could not create on your own. For example, she could place your partner in safe yet elaborate bondage and then leave you two to enjoy the predicament, skillfully arrange electrodes on one player and leave you instructions on how to play with a TENS unit safely, or help a novice top get into a dominant mindset and their partner into a submissive state.
  • She can conduct an education-focused session, showing a dominant partner new skills or techniques (bondage and impact play, for example) and answering questions along the way.
  • She can dominate both partners. In this scenario, both people assume the role of a submissive. Sophia will either switch off which submissive she focuses on or instruct one submissive how to engage with the other.

Steps to schedule

  1. Fill out the inquiry form on Sophia’s website. This asks for your contact information, your experience level, and your interests.
  2. Sophia’s assistant, Cara, will respond via email to answer any questions and handle scheduling.
  3. (Optional) There is always an in-person conversation before play, but you can also schedule a paid phone call before the day of the session to discuss interests and ask questions. For some people, this helps with pre-session jitters or if you’re uncertain if Sophia is the right dominatrix for you.
  4. When the date, time, and duration of the session are set, a deposit is required.
  5. Once the deposit is paid, you’ll receive a confirmation email with all the details for the day of your session.

FAQs 

How sexual do sessions get? While the play is usually erotically charged, for legal reasons, there is no sex (meaning oral sex, manual stimulation, or penetrative sex) between Sophia and those she plays with. However, couples who session with her may be as intimate as they like with each other.

Is there any preparation needed? The only things you may want to do before the session are think about your interests and limits so you can answer Sophia’s questions during the pre-scene negotiation, and maybe stretch a bit.

What do we wear? Whatever makes you feel sexy and confident.

What will Sophia wear? Something from her fetish wardrobe. Reasonable wardrobe requests can be accommodated; take a look at her website for a glimpse of the possibilities. If you would like Sophia to wear something specific that’s not currently in her wardrobe, like particular fetish attire, you may discuss via email purchasing that attire for her to wear during your session.

What happens when we arrive at the dungeon? Sophia will greet you at the door, and you’ll sit down for a brief pre-scene negotiation where she’ll ask questions to better understand your needs, desires, and limits, and you’ll have an opportunity to ask questions. Once everyone is on the same page, there is time to use the restroom and change clothes (if needed). Then you will join Sophia in the playroom and follow her instructions on what to do next.

Session locations

Depending on availability, sessions may be held at one of two Chicago Dungeon Rental locations:

CDR Logan Square – nearest major intersection is California & Milwaukee Aves

CDR West Loop – nearest major intersection is Chicago & Ashland

Sophia’s formal training includes:

  • BA in Gender Studies from DePaul University
  • Master’s in Clinical Social Work from the University of Chicago
  • Graduate of Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts
  • Graduate of Midori’s ForteFemme Female Dominance Intensive

Session Rates
A non-refundable deposit of $150 is required to secure your date.
The deposit goes toward the cost of your session.

Please note that there is no nudity or intimate contact.

1 hour $600 ($700 for couples)

1.5 hours $900 ($1050 for couples)

2 hours $1,200 ($1,400 for couples)

3 hours $1,800 ($2,100 for couples)